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During 2006, I made a trip to Canberra for a medical school interview. I assumed to book a place to stay when I arrived, yet once I got there, a big convention was happening and all the backpackers hostels and budget accommodation had no vacancies.

As a visitor from Singapore, I thought the possibility of just sleep at the airport – only to discover that airport, unlike Singapore’s, does not operate 24 hours. Not knowing how to proceed and getting a bit desperate, I boarded a bus into town and found myself drifting near the casino, reasoning I might spend the night in a place that was open 24/7. That wouldn’t put me in the best shape to succeed at an interview the next day, but as a broke student, luxury accommodation was impossible.

Our society requires more folks who show such kindness.

It seems I seemed out of place as a female student noticed me walking aimlessly through the city center and inquired if everything was alright. I explained the story of my accommodation crisis and without hesitation she said I could sleep on the ground of her dormitory at ANU – an ideal turn of events, considering that was where my interview was the following day. Generously, she also provided a meal: one of the filled rolls she brought back her work shift. I had access to the bathroom and a secure location to rest to spend the night.

With hindsight, I can appreciate the enormous leap of faith she took as a woman inviting a guy who was a complete stranger sleep on her floor. At that time I operated under a bubble of male privilege and did not consider to such safety concerns. Now, as a father, I am astonished she did that – but still incredibly thankful.

Ultimately, I did not go to that university, and I never saw that kind stranger again, but I’ve never forgotten her selfless deed of human compassion. It is my wish karma has rewarded her generosity abundantly. Our society requires more people with such compassion.